Question by Jess & Baby: Stress during pregnancy??
Due to a bunch of BS that’s been going on in my life beyond both me and my fiances control there has been A LOT of stress throughout my pregnancy. Long story short my fiances ex of OVER 5 YEARS ago when she found out we were having a baby flipped out and has been stalking me and harassing me and threatening to kill my unborn child right to my face..saying psychotic things in front of A LOT of people and what not. We had restraining orders on here and after they got up (30 day restraining order) a few weeks ago all this crap has started up again. I was so worked up the other night that when I went into the ER my blood pressure was 196/92. I was SUPER DUPER swollen (couldn’t bend my knees more than a 90 deg angle) because of my bp. So now I’m stressing out on top of that about the side effects on my unborn son. So I’m wondering what are the side effects of stress and high blood pressure? Any tips on how to de stress and deal with all this?? Thanks!! Oh yeah I’m 29 weeks along.
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Answer by ash
Stress is worse on you right now then it is for your baby. But in turn the stress on your body isn’t letting your baby develop. Tell this crazy chick that you’re going to take her to court and you’re going to sue her for harrassment. Apply for more restraining orders. Move so she can’t find you and make your fiancee handle the situation. Ther is something he should be able to do to take the stress off of you
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Some suggest you can expect a child with possible behavioral problems.
Move in with a relative out of town, unplug the phone, and ignore other peoples issues for now.
well i’ve never been pregnant before, but i’ve dealt with a lot of stress,and a lot of drama.
take a break from it all.
do something with you’re friends or you’re fiance, something you havent done in a looooooong time.
and i’d put up another restraining order, one that lasts longer?
and going to the gym, or taking a walk, something along those lines, helps me calm down after being stressed.
good luck with you’re baby!
:)))
Perhaps it could effect the facial symmetry of your child? More stress indicates difficulty coping?
This probably isn’t what you’re looking for. But I do have a source:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Facial_symmetry
Good luck! Life is hard sometimes.
I would suggest contacting authorities about the threats, especially if you have witnesses. As far as the stress is concerned, maybe some meditation or progressive relaxation. Chamomile tea is good for relaxation too. I really wish you safety and all the best.
the baby is probably fine, talk to you doc., get a new restraining order, and get away for a few days to relax
well im not sure to tell you take a vacation or just get away!!! but my sister had high blood pressure through both of her babys my neice the 1st came a little to early but her son there was nuthing wrong.. just get away for a little while.. but let us know what is going on ok
Well aren’t you having fun! Time for another restraining order!
You’re going to some how, keep that blood pressure down, along with the stress, which is causing the high blood pressure. Did you talk to your Doc about any side effects regarding stress/high blood pressure? Only thing I can tell you at this point is keep a low profile and get another restraining order. Big help hey!
Don’t let her get to you. That’s the very thing she’s looking for.
Don’t let her win her psycho games. Do you know any “bikers” by any chance. Have thought about that a few times my self. All they would have to do is walk up to her and look at her and she’d go a running. Guess I shouldn’t think in those terms.
Do you access to a pool? NO HOT TUB! Don’t know where you live, but where I live (north woods of Wisconsin) because tourist season has ended, most motels will let you use there pools for a small fee, usually $5.00. Sister and I just did that last week during the the week. Weekends are reserved for travelers. Relaxing way to spend a couple of hours. Check it out. Don’t go alone. Go with a friend(s) or fiance.
If all else fails, talk to lawyer about advice regarding the psycho and your health. HEALTH is the issue here. Lawyer won’t charge a fee for one consultation. Could also go to leagal aid for advise. If that shoots the stress up, don’t do it.
You’re going to have to keep the stress level down, down, down. How you’re going to that, I can’t answer that, eccept for the few suggestions I gave. I truely believe your baby is going to be just fine. He may come out punching, but other than that, he’ll be fine.
If you do go swimming, don’t worry about that either. Went swimming all the time when I was prego. Hay, may be that’s why my daughter is the way she is. I think she has water on the brain. She should hear me now! I’ll have to tell her that tomorrow if I talk with her. Got to LAUGH about something once an awhile.
You’ll be fine. Remember, we all have our Guardian Angel watching over us.
When it’s time, say Happy Birthday for me.